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Fair and Balanced (Unlike Fox News) regarding sex in committed relationships

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Sex in Committed Relationships

John Gottman, Ph.D notes that a strong friendship is the best predictor of good sex in a long term committed relationship. He has been known to challenge the views of Ester Perel, author of Mating in Captivity. Dr. Gottman challenges Ms. Perel's criticism of "the dreaded flannel nighty", stating that it is still possible to explore beneath the nighty. For exposure to two very different views regarding sex in committed relationships, view this video of Ester Perel and also check out John and Julie Gottman at